Why Small Acts of Kindness Mean More Than You Think”

Written By: Felecia Causey

 I have always been grateful for anything someone does for me, and I’ve taught my kids the same lesson—to appreciate what people do for you, because no one is obligated to do anything. Gratitude is a choice, and it’s a value I hold close.

There is a realtor in Montgomery, Alabama, named Kelly DeLaitsch. I have never met this lady. I bought my house 15 years ago, and for as long as I can remember, she has sent me a magnet calendar every single year, along with Alabama and Auburn football schedules for the fridge. Her contact information is on them, of course, and from this day forward, if someone asks me about a realtor, she will be the one I recommend.

Why? Because even though these items are promotional, they mean more to me than she probably realizes. Every year I genuinely look forward to seeing what the new calendar theme will be. My daughter laughs because she knows how excited I get when they arrive in the mail. So yes, Kelly—I love them, and thank you.

Last year, I wrote a blog post reviewing a food truck. I did it simply because I love what I do. I never expect anything in return. If you’ve read my blog, you know I’m not biased—I’m honest. I gave this food truck and its owner a great review because the chicken salad truly is the best I’ve ever tasted. I keep hoping one day they’ll sell it in stores so people outside Montgomery can try it. Every time I’ve gone, the quality and flavor have been consistent.

Then, out of the blue the other day, the owner messaged me saying he had something for me. When I arrived, he handed me a large bowl of jalapeño chicken salad as a thank‑you for my support. I was surprised, and honestly, it made my day.

Moments like these remind me to stay grateful. They also remind me of the times I’ve done things for people—over and over—without even receiving a simple “thank you.” I never expected anything in return, but the lack of appreciation, the sense of entitlement, the attitude of “you’re supposed to do this for me,” made me look at myself in the mirror.

I will always be grateful for what people do for me. And I’m also learning when it’s time to cut off people who only take and never appreciate. Gratitude matters. It changes how you see people, and it changes how you allow people to treat you.