Written By:Felecia Causey
Photography By: Felecia Causey
Model: Alia Johnson
I genuinely love seeing children succeed and letting their gifts take center stage. With so much unfairness and peer pressure, some people have to put in somewhat more effort than others. Parents are overlooked heroes because, after a demanding day at work, they are the ones who encourage their children to rise up and face defeat. Parents manage to be present despite feeling overwhelmed by their responsibilities. The reason the parents have the necessary strength, both physically and mentally, is because of the choices that they make to ensure their child has the best opportunities in life.
We can see that presence matters when we observe the numerous professionals who are continuously acknowledging the people who have helped them get to where they are. As I watched these powerful videos, I saw how each person described how their parents made sacrifices and how, as a result of their selflessness, they will be rewarded for having supported them in reaching their goals.
As a parent who has a child who has participated in both travel and high school soccer, I understand that sometimes we feel guilty about spending so much time traveling across the state or spending hours in the heat during competitions, but we also know that our love for our children will not be in vain. I watch my son's demeanor shift as his dad arrives at his games following a demanding twelve-hour shift, an instant smile. Although he is aware of his father's exhaustion, he also knows that his father wouldn't trade it for anything.
The most typical experience for parents of athletes or dancers is the numerous practice days that accompany tournaments and/or dancing competitions, which might last all day or over the weekend. Since they give up their free time to be their child's driver, cheerleader, massage therapist, and more, many parents have very little social life.
Good parents don't feel compelled to provide their kids the finest opportunity and do what is good for them. Many people might not realize how important it is to be present and that, in my opinion, choosing your priorities sometimes means prioritizing your children.
I understand that you may feel worn out and occasionally overburdened, but please know that kids won't forget. As your child excels on the court, in the gym, or on the field, remember that by being their pillar of support, you are opening doors that they might not have been able to access on their own. Remember that even if you aren't dressed up in a cape or fancy costume, you are still the hero and MVP when your child places the crown on his or her head.
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