No Manual, Just a Mother’s Heart: Navigating Parenthood One Day at a Time

Written By:Felecia Causey

Photography: Felecia Causey

Models: Tamiya & Kyson

Being a parent is such a wild ride, isn't it? We all strive to be the perfect mom or dad, doing everything just right. Let's be honest, though – we're going to mess up sometimes! That's totally okay. It's a learning process, and every kid is unique. What works for one might not work for another.

It feels like everyone's got parenting advice, whether you asked for it or not! There are tons of books and experts, but at the end of the day, you know your kids best. Whether you have two kids or eight, it's a constant learning curve – every kid has their own personality, their own quirks.

I really try to avoid being that “overly critical” parent. You know, the one who's always pointing out flaws instead of celebrating wins. I want to support my kids, to cheer them on when they succeed, and offer a hug when things get tough. It's a balancing act between keeping them grounded and helping them reach their full potential. Sometimes that feels like a battle in itself – especially when external pressure makes you doubt your parenting decisions.

The bottom line is: We're all just doing our best. Let's cut ourselves some slack and remember that being a great parent doesn't mean being perfect. It means loving your kids unconditionally and figuring it out one day at a time!

We all have those moments where we feel like we're messing up – it's totally normal! I've heard so many parents say they worry about unloading their stress on their kids. It's so important to remember that your kids aren't responsible for your feelings, even when things get tough. They deserve to feel loved and supported, no matter what.

One thing I've learned is that the little things really do matter. Those tiny moments – reading a bedtime story, playing a silly game, just being present – those are the memories that stick with them. And please, ditch the social media comparison game! Seriously, those perfectly posed family photos. They don't tell the whole story. What works for one family won't always work for another, and that's okay.

Remember to take care of yourself too, you amazing parent, you! You can't pour from an empty cup. Self-care isn't selfish – it's essential.

The best advice I can offer? See the world from your child's perspective. Think about the kind of parent *you* wished you had when you were growing up. Sometimes, stepping back and acting more like a supportive coach than a boss helps kids learn and grow independently.

You've got this! Believe in yourself and your parenting superpowers. You're doing great.