Written By Erika
Edited By: Felecia Causey
Photography By: Felecia Causey
Hello, my name is Erika, and my son’s name is Eddie, “EJ.”
EJ is now 6 years old and currently in speech and occupational therapy. It’s a journey one filled with challenges, growth, and love. As a single mother, I do what I have to do so he can live the life he deserves. And with the support of our amazing village, we keep moving forward.
On the day of his diagnosis, I felt a wave of emotions confusion, fear, anger, sadness, and even guilt. I questioned myself as a mother. I questioned his father. I even questioned God. I wanted to understand how, out of all his siblings, he was the only one affected. Mentally, it was overwhelming trying to process what autism meant for his future and how it would shape our everyday life.
As time passed and EJ grew older, the journey began affecting me physically as well. Sleepless nights, constant worry, and the stress of navigating therapies, appointments, and daily challenges took a toll on my body and mind. I often felt exhausted, but I knew I had to stay strong for my son.
Despite the hardships, this journey has reshaped me both as a woman and as a mother. It has taught me patience, resilience, and a deeper kind of love. What once felt like a heavy weight on my shoulders eventually became a path of growth. I became a stronger advocate for my son. I learned to celebrate every milestone, no matter how big or small.
To all parents whether you’re just finding out, whether you’re unsure, or whether you’re scared to get your child tested I want to tell you this:
Don’t look at the diagnosis as a delay to a better future. Look at it as a new pathway one that allows you to see the world differently.
I now have a soon‑to‑be first grader an A‑honor‑roll student who loves playing t‑ball and spending time with his siblings and family. He is smart, loving, full of life, and full of purpose.
Our journey isn’t perfect, but it’s ours. And every day, EJ reminds me that he is exactly who he is meant to be.