Moms Sometimes We Have to Learn as We Go



Written By: Felecia Causey

 There are hundreds of books and blogs, by professionals, that are supposed to give moms the guidance of this thing called motherhood.  The question is can a book really prepare you for everything that comes with this role? Can someone advise and really prepare you for every emotional or physical challenge that may come to you as a mother?  Can a blog teach you how to feel or how to prepare for all the humps on this journey?



Elders can give you traditional ways, television shows can give you what they think a household should look like, and a “professional” can tell you what you should or should not do. Can anyone or anything really have all the answers and keys to being the perfect parent? Every child is different. Don’t be hard on yourself. There isn’t anyone that can give you the manual to “your child/children”.




Do books tell you how to mend your child’s broken heart? Will someone be able to tell a mother not to cry because a doctor told them their child will be different? 


Every child is different, so there is absolutely no way anyone can be 100% correct on what to do in your situation. Many can give you their opinion or give examples of what others did or felt.



All mothers want the best for their kids. Sacrificing your happiness for theirs or working their butts off to make sure they don’t go without anything. 



It’s okay to sit in your car to cry by yourself sometimes. As a mother, I know that we are harder on ourselves, because we just want to get it right. Remember every day will not always be sunshine and rainbows.


We are living in a world where people are so judgemental and everyone thinks their way is the right way. Be strong for your kids, but mostly be strong for yourself. Your love, determination, and relationship with God is the best guide as you embark on this journey of parenthood.


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