Photos By: Felecia Causey
When parents show up, it truly makes a difference. Their presence whether at a game, a recital, or in the everyday moments builds confidence, strengthens connection, and creates memories that last a lifetime. Children thrive when they feel seen and supported, and every time a parent shows up, it sends a powerful message: “You matter.” Showing up isn’t just about being physically present; it’s about being emotionally available in ways that shape a child’s world.
Today’s children are growing up in a world filled with new challenges, and parental presence is more important than ever. Being there isn’t only about cheering from the sidelines it’s about safety, advocacy, and ensuring children are treated with fairness and respect. Whether confronting bullying adults or addressing unsportsmanlike behavior, parents play a vital role in protecting and guiding their children. Being present means speaking up when necessary, stepping in when things aren’t right, and reminding children they never have to face difficult moments alone.
As a mother, I have witnessed the heartbreaking side of a sport my child loves the disappointment, the unfair treatment, and the challenges no parent should have to watch their child endure. Despite my desire to remain composed, I had to stand up for my son when faced with a school that failed to support him and a governing body for interscholastic athletics in Alabama that allowed dishonesty, unprofessionalism, and bias to overshadow fairness. The experience was so disheartening that it would make any parent question whether to let their child continue in a sport they love.
Through my faith in God, I’ve learned that sometimes prayer is more powerful than reaction, even when the situation seems to demand a response. I remind myself to lead with grace, to uphold a standard, and to resist frustration. But when there are no other options, being present stepping in and standing up becomes necessary to protect, advocate, and do what is right.
I have watched my son fight through adversity with resilience and determination. Even when others lacked the will to push forward, he continued to rise. I’ve seen him stay positive, grow stronger, and persevere through years of challenges, even when the odds were stacked against him. God has taught me so much through both of my children. One, who once struggled with a speech delay, is now thriving in college with a full-ride scholarship in communication. And my son, who refused to give up on the sport he loves, continues to inspire me with his dedication and heart.
One day, the countless practices, long drives, intense training sessions, and money spent won’t be what matters most. What will remain are the memories, the lessons, and the truth about the obstacles faced and the battles fought. The enemy may have tried to break the fast boy in the orange cleats, but God revealed the truth and reminded us that no one can block the blessings He has already prepared. His plan is greater than any challenge, and His favor cannot be denied.
So yes, whether your child plays one play, one second, or the entire game showing up matters. My son has played soccer since he was four years old, and through every trial, disappointment, and triumph, I never stopped showing up. As parents, many of us remember what it felt like to have someone there or to wish someone had been. Being present isn’t just about watching; it’s about showing children they are valued, supported, and never alone on their journey.